Everything is kind of to taste. I don't like to overdo the other liquor. 

1/2 cup Brandy (optional)

1/2 cup triple sec other orange liquor

juice of 1 or 2 lemons (to taste)

juice of 1 or 2 limes (to taste)

1/3 cup orange juice

bottle light red wine (Rioja or Pinot Noir are good)

1/4 cup white sugar (optional and to taste)

2 cups carbonated water (optional) or lemon or lime Perrier

1 orange, sliced into rounds

1 lime, sliced into rounds

grapes

mellon or other fruit as you desire